Small Steps Count: How Tiny Moves Forward Still Matter
What if the step you’re afraid to take doesn’t have to be a giant leap?
At Televero Health, we notice something important about healing: the people who make the most progress aren’t usually the ones taking dramatic, life-altering jumps. They’re the ones who consistently take small steps — sometimes so small they worry these steps don’t even count.
Maybe you’ve been thinking about getting help for a while. You’ve visited websites, read articles like this one, or even saved a therapist’s number in your phone. But you haven’t made the call. You haven’t sent the message. You haven’t taken what feels like the “real” step.
Here’s what we want you to know: those preliminary moves count more than you think. In fact, they might be the most important part of your journey.
When something has felt hard for a long time, we often believe change requires an equally big solution. A complete turnaround. A total transformation. But healing rarely works that way. Instead, it happens in moments so small you might miss their significance if you’re looking for something bigger.
The truth is, change happens in stages. First comes awareness — noticing that something doesn’t feel right. Then contemplation — wondering if things could be different. Then preparation — the research, the questions, the weighing of options. All of these stages happen before action. All of them are necessary. And all of them count as real progress.
Think about it this way: if you were climbing a mountain, would you discount all the preparation? The map-reading, the gathering of supplies, the training walks? Of course not. Those steps make the summit possible. They’re not separate from the journey — they are the journey.
The same is true for your mental health. Reading this article is a step. Thinking about whether therapy might help is a step. Allowing yourself to imagine a life where things feel different is a step. These aren’t just things you do before the real work begins. They are the real work.
We see this all the time with the people we work with. Someone might spend months or even years in the contemplation stage, thinking about whether to reach out. From the outside, it might look like nothing is happening. But inside, mountains are moving. Questions are being turned over. Possibilities are being considered. The soil is being prepared so that when they do take that next small step, it has somewhere to take root.
Maybe you’re worried that your small steps don’t matter because they haven’t led to big changes yet. Maybe you’re frustrated with yourself for not moving faster. Maybe you feel like you’re going in circles rather than forward.
What if those circles are actually a spiral, bringing you closer to center each time around? What if the pace that feels too slow is actually exactly right for you right now? What if the small steps that seem insignificant are actually laying groundwork you can’t yet see?
When we rush toward big leaps, we often miss the small shifts that make lasting change possible. We focus so much on the destination that we miss the path that leads there. We get caught up in “should be furthers” and “should be fasters” instead of honoring where we actually are.
Your tiny steps forward matter. The moments of honesty with yourself. The times you’ve admitted that something needs to change, even if only in the quiet of your own mind. The questions you’ve asked. The articles you’ve read. The conversations you’ve considered having.
These aren’t just preparation for the journey. They’re not just the prelude to the real thing. They are the journey itself. They are the real thing. They matter.
So whatever small step you’ve taken today — whether it’s reading this far, allowing yourself to feel something difficult, or simply being honest about where you are — know that it counts. It matters. It’s real progress.
Ready for another small step? Start here. We’ll meet you where you are.